Without exception, everybody gets hit with shit. Some succumb to the pressure. Others barely survive. Why? Because, they’ve lost their muchness. Well, that’s what The Mad Hatter said to Alice: “You’ve lost your muchness. In there (pointing to her belly), something’s missing.”
What’s missing in your life?
Sure, it is beyond wonderful to have that particular someone in your life who, without fail, creates beautiful ballads from bad rhymes; who turns your frown upside down; who extends unrelenting support; whose energy cocoons you and transmits new life; whose silent love imbues strength.
But what if that special person is not available or are no longer here on earth?
There is a reason that your peace is deeply disturbed or that your boat is at the brink of a shipwreck. And until you realize and exercise your own strength, you may be kept in the storm.
So, where is your muchness?
There is a smoldering in your belly. When ignited, it becomes a powerful flame that can never be extinguished no matter what life douses.
The strength you need already exists inside of you.
Do you have the guts to light it? Because no one else, no matter how lovely, is capable of lighting your fire.